Showing posts with label Violence Against Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Violence Against Women. Show all posts

Getting Involved as Domestic Violence Services Fall Victim to Budget Cuts

Funding for domestic violence programs and services are decreasing in some states. 

These services are vital but do not absolve Christians from providing biblical, knowledgeable, and compassionate support to victims of abuse. 

It is wrong to depend solely on local and state services to help those within our spheres of influence. 

For many, like former pastor's wife, Susan Greenfield, author of, Would the Real Church PLEASE Stand Up!, domestic violence shelters and services play a vital part in her escape and were all she and her children had to turn to. Domestic violence counselors, instead of her "church family," were her only supporters as she navigated the terrifying minefield of domestic abuse. 


Let that sink in.

Christians, we must step up to the plate, and stop refusing to get involved in these horrendous situations. It is time to get out of our comfort zones. Lives may depend may on it. 

Know the local resources in your areas. Program them into your phones. Be ready to refer to them. Often that is the only safe solution. But what if there are no services in your area? What if there is no room in a facility for the one asking you for help?  

What is your church or group doing to gain understanding of the facts and dynamics of abusive and even violent relationships? Don't tell her to "just leave," and then turn your back on her. Yes it's frustrating. Yes it's frightening. But the Word of God commands us bear one another's burdens, and battered women who come to us for help, don't need to be sluffed off to the "professionals." Referrals and sluffing-off are two completely different things. Learn the difference.

Abused Christian women come to Christian friends, family, and spiritual leaders for godly counsel and emotional support. Are you prepared to give it? Are you prepared to put hands and feet to your prayers and advice? Does your group or church have a benevolence fund that includes helping battered women and their children? It should. 

Every month, not just October, should be domestic violence awareness month. As this is being written there are 17-days before domestic violence awareness month begins. In that 17-days, 51 women will die from a homicidal incident of domestic violence. And that does not count the number of children who die as part of these same homicidal incidences by the fathers, stepfathers, and boyfriends who murder the mothers.

It is time to learn how to respond biblically, knowledgeably, and compassionately to someone who may turn to you for help. My book, Woman Submit! Christians & Domestic Violence, is a good place to start. It is available on Kindle Unlimited, and you can read the first chapter free at womansubmit.com.

 Author and speaker, Jocelyn Andersen, is an eclectic Christian writer. She is a Bible teacher who writes about many subjects including Bible prophecy and equality of the sexes. She is best known for her advocacy in domestic violence awareness. Her book, Woman Submit! Christians & Domestic Violence, has been a staple in the library of resources on that subject.  

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We Just Lost Ground


I am outraged that Kansas would repeal laws to protect women from aggravated assault at the hands of husbands and boyfriends. Women have fought so long and hard to make what progress we have only to hear that now we are not worth the money it takes to protects us from violence?

In case any of you have not heard, the Shawnee County District Attorney decided last month that he would no longer prosecute domestic violence cases in the city of Topeka. Outraged at the power play by the D.A.—not the threat to the safety of women—the Topeka City Council voted to reduce felony domestic violence cases to “misdemeanor domestic abuse.” They promptly released eighteen offenders without pressing any charges.

This was an issue of power and money between the Topeka City Council and the Shawnee County District Attorney. Women there are considered nothing more than pawns to be sacrificed on the altars of power and money.

We need three things. First, we need an Equal Rights Amendment. What happened in Topeka can happen again and again in one city after another until women are reduced to the lack of protection we experienced 50 years ago. Don’t say it can’t happen. It just happened in Kansas! An Equal Rights Amendment is the only thing that cannot be changed by a City Council or a simple congressional vote.

Second, Women need to be declared victims of hate crimes. Hate Crime is a legal category used to describe bias motivated violence. Violence against women, especially when perpetrated by a spouse or boyfriend, should be categorized as a hate crime. In most domestic violence cases, women are assaulted because they are women. That makes domestic violence a hate crime.

Hate crime laws enhance penalties associated with conduct that is already criminal under other laws. Conversely, domestic violence laws, by virtue of the language itself, often have the effect of minimizing the severity of criminal conduct in the minds of the prosecutors—as the Shawnee D.A. just demonstrated!

But whether or not the crime was committed because of a generalized sense of male privilege or entitlement or because of a religiously motivated hatred of women due to deeply held complementarian beliefs, what happened in Topeka underscores the need for women to be declared victims of hate crimes as well as the need for an Equal Rights Amendment which would do far more to protect women than local laws which, as demonstrated in Topeka, are easily repealed.

Third, the term “domestic violence” needs to be purged from our legal vocabularies. There is nothing domestic about violence, and such language used to describe violence against women minimizes the severity of the violence in the minds of those who hear such watered-down verbiage. A crowbar does less damage when it’s wielded by a husband or boyfriend and smashes into the face of a woman? Aggravated assault is aggravated assault!

There has been an appalling apathy concerning getting the Equal Rights Amendment ratified. I hope what happened in Topeka will serve as a wake-up call to us all. Women need Constitutional protection.


Author and speaker, Jocelyn Andersen, is an eclectic Christian writer. She is a Bible teacher who writes about many subjects including Bible prophecy and equality of the sexes. She is best known for her advocacy in domestic violence awareness. Her book, Woman Submit! Christians & Domestic Violence, has been a staple in the library of resources on that subject.  

To receive an announcement from Amazon whenever a new book is released by Jocelyn Andersen, subscribe to Her Amazon author's page.

To Contact Jocelyn: Use the contact form in the sidebar of her blog at www.jocelynandersen.com to leave comments on her books, to reach her with questions, or to request for her to  speak at your group.